What I intended to write about today no longer resonated with me after the end of the workday I just had. I felt I needed to write about something that would bring me pleasure and pass that on.
Some Mondays really are prickly than others.
I went out walking earlier this morning (during my break from virtually working) and I kept thinking how much I enjoy going for a walk this time of year. Mostly for the way the air smells so cold, crisp, and fresh in its own way. The skies seem bluer and the scenery more honest.
The walk reminded me of the way particular scents have a way of grounding and relaxing me.
My Dad was a chef (he is now retired) when I was growing up and he was always cooking or baking something which would smell throughout our house. Even on his days off he never stayed out of the kitchen for too long (as an adult I miss his cooking which has forced me into trying to emulate what I learned and continue to learn from him in the kitchen).
I vividly remember the times I would come home from school, work, or practice and I could smell dinner from the moment my car pulled up to the driveway. And if he wasn’t cooking or baking – he was always burning a candle.
These sense of smell memories keep flooding back and suddenly I feel calmer than I did at the start of this post (writing is magic).
As my mind continues to wander down scent memory lane – there are the times I remember waking up with my window open and the smell of him cutting the grass. It’s funny to recall all of the smells that take me back to that yellow house and younger times.
What are the other scents that I can recall in this moment and the feelings/words I associate with them?
- Ocean/Beach (home)
- Campfire (warmth)
- Mom-mom’s Sunday cooking (love)
- Vanilla (childhood)
- Lavender (growing up)
- Coffee (Dad)
- Books (inspiration)
- Apple-cinnamon (comfort)
Honestly, my list is more than likely longer than this – but the point is to just list and relax. So, I encourage you – can you think of 5, 10, or more smells that bring you comfort?
My next task is to go cook dinner and hope that my apartment will fill up with some delicious, comforting smells.
Seek joy and sit with it (or smell it).